Three extraordinary wedding venues, each with its own story to tell. Privately run and exclusively yours, our houses in Surrey, Hampshire and Buckinghamshire offer the perfect English countryside setting for your special day.
With over 25 years’ of experience, we bring together award-winning planning, beautiful surroundings and restaurant quality dining to create extraordinary one-of-a-kind wedding celebrations for each of our couples.
Which wedding house will you fall for?
The grand Surrey mansion with a mysterious royal past. Botleys Mansion sits within 56 acres of rolling parkland, just 30 minutes from London, yet a world away.
With space for 50 to 288 for your ceremony, and up to 500 for your evening reception, Botleys Mansion is a spectacular wedding venue choice in Surrey — and it’s entirely yours.

The grand Surrey mansion with a mysterious royal past. Botleys Mansion sits within 56 acres of rolling parkland, just 30 minutes from London, yet a world away.
With space for 50 to 288 for your ceremony, and up to 500 for your evening reception, Botleys Mansion is a spectacular wedding venue choice in Surrey — and it’s entirely yours.

A romantic Tudor barn-style wedding house on the edge of the South Downs, Cain Manor is filled with rustic charm, character and sweeping countryside views of the Surrey Hills.
With space for up to 123 for your ceremony and 200 for your evening reception, this wedding reception venue in Hampshire is intimate, atmospheric, and exclusively yours.

The honey-hued hideaway once home to Hollywood golden-age icons Laurence Olivier and Vivien Leigh, Notley Abbey is a breathtaking venue on the Oxfordshire Buckinghamshire border.
Set at the end of a private tree-lined drive, with space from 50 to 164 for your ceremony and up to 250 for your evening reception, it’s a place where historic beauty meets modern celebration. This is the crème-de-la-crème of both Oxfordshire and Buckinghamshire wedding venues.
At Harper Weddings, we’ve been creating incredible wedding days for our couples for 25 years. The best celebrations happen when everything flows perfectly – from the champagne to the speeches to the dancing, in extraordinary country house settings with the people you love.
Each exclusive wedding venue is yours entirely. Surrounded by your nearest and dearest, you have complete privacy, your own timeline, and every space to yourselves. Just you, your loved ones, and all the time you need to celebrate properly.
Wedding planning should feel exciting, not exhausting. With your own dedicated wedding planner and a personal online portal available 24/7, we handle the logistics while you focus on the fun – it’s what we’re here for.
Lionel, our Executive Chef, brings his experience from The Dorchester to create wedding menus worth celebrating – from canapés during the drinks reception to your three-course wedding breakfast, evening food when the dancing starts, and breakfast the morning after.
Each wedding venue comes with beautiful bedrooms for you and your nearest and dearest to stay the night. Wake up where you celebrated, gather for breakfast together, and relive every moment from your wedding day.
Great weddings need great people. From wedding photographers to perfectly capture your day to bands who get the party started – our Harper Partners are the suppliers we’d book for our own celebrations. They’re ready when you need them, or you’re welcome to choose your own.